Life isn't fair, but its still good

"I went to KFC. 24 people went for the job, 23 were accepted, I was the only one rejected. And we went for police, five people full of them accepted, I was the only one rejected. I applied for Harvard ten times rejected" said by Jack ma, richest man in China. When you've exhausted all possibilities, remember this , you haven't . No matter how bad it is , it could always be worse. Be glad its not. Put your problems in proper perspective. The reason why we don't become who we want to be is because we do attach to who we've been. Haven't you ever hard people saying " but i have always been like this!" Most of us want the convenience of transformation without the inconvenience required for the transformation. Let go of the past so that you can create a better future. It doesn't mean what happened was right, it means your future happiness is more important than holding on to something you can't change. If you want to achieve something different, you have to do something different. Doing something different means getting out of your comfort zone and this is never going to be easy. However it doesn't  matter how many times you fail, remember only have to succeed once. Failure is not final because a single success can make you forget the pains of twenty years of failure. Life isn't always fair , be prepared and get used to its disappointments. Figure out where the world is going and get there before anyone. Leave your comfort zone, there is no growth there. We can't become what we need to be by remaining what we are. We are where we are in life because of what we believe is possible for us. Its not failure if you enjoy the process. There is no failure ,only feedback. Everything is either what we want or what we don't want. There are so many opportunities, the big mistake we make is to expect this journey to be easy. Far from it; its tough, its hard, its hell but it leads to heaven. Look inward and figure out how to create the life you will love. "At age 11, he was cut from his team after being diagnosed with a growth hormone deficiency,which made him smaller in stature than most kids of his age"- Lionel Messi, three times FIFA word player of the year. Every time we think we are being rejected from something good , remember we are just being redirected to something better.