We all have the pressure that we have got to deal with everyday ;with friends, with family , with worker mates, with parents among others. The more you listen to opinions of people on the expense of yours, the more you lose who you are! Recently, I realised I don't know how to be anything but myself. What you believe in and how you feel about yourself is more important than how anyone feel about you. Manage your emotions, the right way is the domination of the mind over the emotions. When you make loving others the story of your life , there is never a final chapter , because the legacy continues! Concentrate your energies , your thoughts and your capital. The wise man puts all his eggs in one basket and watches the basket. Whatever you pay attention to either bad or good will grow. The mistake we make is to focus on what doesn't matter much! Figure out a few things that really matter to your success in life and concentrate on them. One of my thought leaders, Oprah Winfrey, concretizes it this way; When the talk about my life was loudest, I got still and listened for the answer to 'What is this here to teach me?' The answer first and foremost, lay your ego down. Step out of your ego so you can recognize the truth. As soon as I did that, I was able to see the role I had played in creating 'my circumstances' without blaming other people. I realised that all the noise about my struggle was a reflection of my personal angst and fear!
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